One of the most fascinating characters of Hollywood’s classic film era is Norma Desmond, from the 1950’s movie Sunset Boulevard. Played by Gloria Swanson, Norma is a silent film actress who lives in a fantasy world where she makes a triumphant return to her glory days.

In the final scene of Sunset Boulevard, she has completely lost touch with reality as police and reporters with cameras fill her house. She can’t see the reality that they are there to take her away because she has shot and killed someone.

In her mind, she is the star of another Hollywood picture.

The movie ends with Norma Desmond making a speech that ends with a chilling line. She says, “All right, Mr. DeMille, I’m ready for my close-up” as she moves toward the camera and the picture fades out.

Just like Norma Desmond, we can get lost in our own fantasy world, as well. It’s easy to get so obsessed with our stories, goals, plans, and projects that we start to ignore the people in our lives and lose touch with reality.

Writing is a part of your life, but it’s not your TOTAL life. Don’t lose touch with reality. Keep good, healthy boundaries and make sure writing stays in its proper place in your life.

Today’s Challenge: Ask yourself this question and be honest: Are you ever tempted to get lost in the fantasy of your own goals, dreams, and projects?