If you’re of “a certain age,” you probably remember watching Bob Ross on his TV show “The Joy of Painting,” which he hosted on PBS from 1983-1994. If you’re a little younger, you’ve probably discovered him on the internet, where he has developed an even bigger following.
Each week on his show, Bob painted a mesmerizing landscape in just half an hour. He was known for his soft-spoken style, his signature permed hair, and his uncanny ability to make you believe that just like him, you could paint a masterpiece.
Most of Bob’s viewers didn’t know that he meticulously planned out his paintings in advance. He would create the original painting, memorize every brushstroke, then paint the scene a second time during the taping of the show.
Every once in a while, Bob would make a tiny mistake and then repeat his signature phrase, “We don’t make mistakes, just happy little accidents.” Then he would either paint over the mistake or find a way to blend it into the scene.
There is a good lesson here not only for painters, but for every kind of artist. We like to beat ourselves up for mistakes. We are disappointed when we mess up or don’t perform perfectly.
But remember, you’re human. You’re imperfect. You won’t get it right every time. In fact, there are times when you will flat-out bomb. That book, that blog post, that article, that lesson or speech won’t go as planned, and in those moments the last thing you want to do is celebrate your mistakes.
But what if, instead of painting over those flaws and imperfections, you accepted them as a part of the picture? And not only accepted them… but celebrated them?
It doesn’t mean we compromise our standards. We can still reach for excellence while also accepting our humanity. Those happy little accidents, if we learn from them, can be the pathway to a life that is more beautiful and scenic than all the perfect paintings in the world.