As a writer, you have to do things sometimes that make you uncomfortable. It might be networking, public speaking, learning self-publishing, joining a writing group, or a hundred other things that seem new and exciting, yet still make you feel anxious.
The business leader and author Michael Hyatt said, “The most interesting things happen just on the other side of your comfort zone.” I think we can all agree that’s true. But how do you step outside your comfort zone when it feels… well, uncomfortable? How do you embrace the fear?
When I was in high school, I was very involved in our school plays. When you are an actor, you embrace the idea that you are becoming another person. You put on a costume and magically take on their identity.
This can also work in trying to move past your fear. The next time you must do something that makes you feel uncomfortable, try this: play a character who is brave. It sounds crazy, but it works.
Think of yourself as an actor who is bravely facing their fear. The wonderful thing about stage drama is that you can become anyone. In the blink of an eye, you can play a version of yourself that is brave. Imagine you were on a TV show doing exactly what you’re doing now, except you are playing a fearless version of yourself.
How do you speak? What would you do? What obstacles would you overcome?
It sounds crazy, but it’s true. Pretending you are a brave version of yourself is a fun and effective way to demolish fear and get on the other side of your comfort zone.
Daily Question: Think of a scary situation you’re facing right now. What does the fearless version of yourself look like, sound like, and do?