It’s natural for us to talk about our successes and triumphs. And why not? Those naturally put us in a good light. They show people that we are competent and worthy of respect.

It’s not quite so natural to talk about our mistakes and failures. We always run the risk of disappointing people or coming off as less than perfect. We’re afraid people will think less of us.

Truthfully, though, none of us is perfect. And whenever we see another writer be vulnerable enough to talk about their failures, we relate to it. We live with our own failures every single day, and it’s refreshing to hear others own up to their imperfections.

Al Alvarez said, “The better the artist, the more vulnerable he seems to be.” There is a connection between greatness and vulnerability. Why is that? Because our humanity, and our willingness to display it without fear of judgment, is what attracts other people.

Go ahead, give it a shot. You may find that the very thing you are afraid to share is what would actually help people the most.