51 Rejections

History is filled with stories about authors who were rejected but kept trying until they found success. Here’s just one example. A number of years ago, an aspiring author decided he wanted to write a book about the key decisions that determine personal success. However, he didn’t want to write it in a traditional nonfiction … Read more

Make Your Own Luck

One of the greatest superhero movies ever made is 2008’s The Dark Knight. People love this movie for many reasons, the biggest of which is Heath Ledger’s fantastic performance as Batman’s arch-nemesis, the Joker. One of the most underrated aspects of the film is Aaron Eckhart’s portrayal of Harvey Dent, the Gotham City District Attorney. … Read more

Be a Person of Value

Every writer talks about wanting success. But what does it actually mean, and how do you measure it? Is it even a worthy goal in the first place? Those are all valid questions, but they’re not the questions we should be asking first. The great physicist Albert Einstein gives us some great guidance here. He … Read more

Comparison Kills

You can make a lot of mistakes as a writer and still be successful. But one of the mistakes that will kill both your enthusiasm AND your success is constantly comparing yourself to others. Let’s be honest: it’s almost impossible to avoid comparing yourself. It’s baked into our DNA to compare ourselves to others. Social … Read more

Bring Your “B” Game

Do you struggle with being a perfectionist? (I’ll bet the answer is YES.) If so, here is a strategy to help you overcome it immediately. If you’re a perfectionist, you’re always shooting for “A” level work. The problem is that your definition of an “A” is so far above everyone else’s that it’s impossible to … Read more

Whose Advice Are You Taking?

One of the most fascinating aspects of being a writer is that lots of people are eager to give you advice. There is a giant industry of books, conferences, retreats, coaching, and podcasts (this being one of them!) devoted to giving you writing advice. But be careful. There is a whole group of people who … Read more

If You Can’t Say Anything Nice

As writers, we spend a lot of time worrying about people who don’t like our writing. But what happens when you are the one who hates someone else’s book? Maybe it’s an author whose marketing you can’t stand. Maybe you read a novel that you thought was poorly written. Maybe you completely disagreed with an … Read more

So Good They Can’t Ignore You

One of the hardest things to swallow is getting ignored. You can work for months or even years on a book. Then you put it out into the world, only to have a few people notice. This isn’t unique to writers. Anyone trying to build something will face this hurdle. How do you get people … Read more